I hardly knew what tagging meant :( until I visited MagicLens's blog,who tagged me :0) . Somehow I liked the idea of jotting down few things about me , easier when it is weird, coz its really WEIRD to write down all one's PLUS points rite??!! ;0).. Alrite.. here you go ...
1.Perhaps the most weird thing goes on top of the list - I have always noticed myself going out of my way to do things for others, even if I knew that person only for the past 1 sec. and ofcourse I get a lot of satisfaction after being a help to someone, but the worst part is , when I need a help, I too expect it from some1 n there when I find no helping hand & mind , tat puts me off for the next couple of days!! And thats it, after 2 days the same person to whom I went for help comes back to me n I m all set again to extend arms . Well Y I think this is weird is , coz , ppl keep telling me not to expect anything from others, I feel , they themselves & all knows tat "to expect is human " ;0).. I always give a 2nd chance to everyone in my life .. be it family or friends !
2. Twice while in dental school , I bunked classes to sit n listen to 2 songs ... 1 day I bunked college and heard this song "Anbe Anbe " from Kaadhal Desam " for almost 15 times continuously .. and another day I did the same for " Enne thaalaatta varuvaala " from Kadhalukku Maryadai " . I dont know what was going through my head that time, but I really did enjoy it to my heart's content,tho all others thot it was one among the other madness in me . Only the other day I was talking to my SIL abt this & like every1 else she asked me " vattarunnoo " nnu ?? haha .. wot to do ..except the bunking part ,I still do the same , sitting at home n listening to my fav song over n over n over n over .....!
3.I have watched my brother's wedding video probably the most # of times than they themselves/any1 else would have !! I really dont know the reason ,probably coz it was one of the most important days in my life or coz of the good songs in it , or coz it has all my dearest ppl in it .. lol .. I still cant figure out why ?? n Once my SIL also mentioned, tat she herself had not seen it completely till now !!
4. I need ppl around me all the time , I like to be chirpy-chirpy & cheerful & make others around me happy always , though at times, when nostalgia strikes me , I love to curl back to my own shell & entertain myself with music & a race thru all the old foto albums !! A cloudy day , a song, rain or a day giving way to dusk anything could make me NOSTALGIC .. !!!
5.I am a neatness freak !!! I like to keep my home as neat n clean & beautiful as I can & keep wiping my kitchen countertop ,keep on cleaning soemthing or the other at home "endless times" even if there is nothing on it , which made my husband ask me once, " kazhinja janmathil nee entha thudappukaari aarunno " nnu .. !! ;0)
6.I say I dont want to believe all x,y,z whom I meet , but at that moment , I trust anyone so blindly , that at times I get to regret over it .
Okkk...now I have made a weirdo outta me ,,,Well, only when I started to write down the weirdos of mine , did I realize that there are many & it could get very personal too ..I wonder if I can jot down something nice abt me :( , the way I blabbered while during a dental school interview when they asked me to express my + n - .... I had to roll my eyes & stare at them ..like a yahoo smilie .. !! weird isn't it ??!!!
I would love to tag some 1, but "who" is te difficult part , as I dont know many of them .Still with pleasure ,giving them also the privilege to be tagged ;0) - chacha, Jeseem ,Shaniyan ,Byju San ,Meera ,Kiranzz !!!
Enjoy being tagged dears !!!! :0)..n thanks dear ML 4 tagging me .. :)
Tuesday, October 03, 2006
Saturday, September 16, 2006
Friday, September 01, 2006
Smile an everlasting smile .. a smile can bring you near to me ........
Living such an unpredictable life , I do wonder why it is so difficult for some people to stretch their facial muscles .. to bring a smile on to their face . . After all a smile would just add beauty to the beautiful face ..
Smile -Laughter ... ‘laughter is the best medicine,’ - an old saying appears to be true when it comes to protecting your heart too.
So , ppl .. smile an everlasting smile .. to ur "hearts" content ...Its your heart and your life ... live it to the fullest ...
I Love to smile n be happyy always .. no matter what .. though at times I am forced to seal my lips .... thanks to the world around me ..
Life is too beautiful ..enjoiiiiiii ..dears ... !!!
Living such an unpredictable life , I do wonder why it is so difficult for some people to stretch their facial muscles .. to bring a smile on to their face . . After all a smile would just add beauty to the beautiful face ..
Smile -Laughter ... ‘laughter is the best medicine,’ - an old saying appears to be true when it comes to protecting your heart too.
So , ppl .. smile an everlasting smile .. to ur "hearts" content ...Its your heart and your life ... live it to the fullest ...
I Love to smile n be happyy always .. no matter what .. though at times I am forced to seal my lips .... thanks to the world around me ..
Life is too beautiful ..enjoiiiiiii ..dears ... !!!
Thursday, August 24, 2006
Tuesday, August 15, 2006
a self-revelation ....
koii ye kaise bataaye ke wo tanahaa kyon hein
wo jo apanaa thaa, wahee aaur kisee kaa kyon hein
yahee duniyaan hain to phir, ayesee ye duniyaan kyon hein
yahee hotaa hain to, aakhir yahee hotaa kyon hai?
ik jaraa haath badhaa de to, pakad le daaman
us ke seene mein samaa jaaye, humaaree dhadakan
itanee kurbat hain to phir faasalaa itanaa kyon hein?
dila-ye-barabaad se nikalaa naheen ab tak koii
ik loote ghar pe diyaa karataa hain dastak koii
aas jo toot gayee hein phir se bandhaataa kyon hai?
tum masarrt kaa kaho yaa ise gam kaa rishtaa
kahate hein pyaar kaa rishtaa hein janam kaa rishtaa
hein janam kaa jo ye rishtaa to badalataa kyon hein?
koii ye kaise bataaye ke wo tanahaa kyon hein
wo jo apanaa thaa, wahee aaur kisee kaa kyon hein
yahee duniyaan hain to phir, ayesee ye duniyaan kyon hein
yahee hotaa hain to, aakhir yahee hotaa kyon hai?
ik jaraa haath badhaa de to, pakad le daaman
us ke seene mein samaa jaaye, humaaree dhadakan
itanee kurbat hain to phir faasalaa itanaa kyon hein?
dila-ye-barabaad se nikalaa naheen ab tak koii
ik loote ghar pe diyaa karataa hain dastak koii
aas jo toot gayee hein phir se bandhaataa kyon hai?
tum masarrt kaa kaho yaa ise gam kaa rishtaa
kahate hein pyaar kaa rishtaa hein janam kaa rishtaa
hein janam kaa jo ye rishtaa to badalataa kyon hein?
Sunday, August 13, 2006
The search.....
There were two persons named "HE" and "She"
He got a very nice friend and walking with her for
past 3 -4 months went like hours and all what She said
was the sweetest thing in the world and the songs
which She sang was the most beautiful one He ever
heard.. Never there was a difference between the both
since both knew, their journey has an end and wanted to
make it most memorable...They shared the wonderful
nature of happiness and reduced the burden of
sorrow...She taught the meaning of friendship and love
to him...She was the most adorable person He ever met
in life...She was the best thing ever happened to his
life...never could He forget her and could have
a close friend as She...Down the path they followed
there came the abrupt end...neither He or She could
reduce the pain of parting but for She, He had to...
This is not the end of the story but here our story
begins..
The pain was nothing else but it was the pain of love…
She had found someone before meeting he. She started
believing that someone is her soulmate and god has
chosen someone for her…She prayed to God to give
strength and asked he to help her out.. As days passed
she was able to find a friend in He… He stayed by the
side of she to help her but could not forget his
love…This is the first time something like this
happened in his life and he never wanted to forget
also..He was sure that he will never get She as he
could see she was drifting away in her way to find
only the best in someone…But in this path there was
fighting…..He and She started fighting on small
issues..He was still in love and could not bear the
pain of she leaving… She was trying to help He to
forget her since she didn’t want to see he in pain…
Time passed and the marriage of She to someone
happened…”Love never fails” were just words with no
meaning for he…These are for selling books or
movies…He wanted to know why he lost his love and so
he went to his father first……He told the whole thing
to his father and asked why it all happened like
this……Father told “Someone is better than you and so
you lost”……His father was no different from any other
father…… He could not believe this and he goes to his
mother and he told what happened in his life………Like
all mothers she also thought her son is the
best….Mother told “ You are far better than someone
but she could not find you, so it’s not your fault”.
He knew that both the answers are not correct and so
he went to God………He will tell the truth at least….With
great difficulty he finds God and asks him. God held
his hand and told “You both are my kids…both of you
are good but when I created you and someone..I made
you more caring, compassionate and calm……Now I have to
give these to someone also.. so I am giving she to
someone……..She will be adding all these to someone and
both of you will be equal… I want all my kids to be
same…She is the best I can make you two equal… You
know that She is the best and She can only do this…”
He was happy in a way that god had given all these
earlier itself and made his life happy till now………He
wondered how wonderful it would have been if she comes
to his life…… He remembered what God has told him….
He tried to be a true friend to her but never let to
reduce the love he had for her ...
Here ends He's story ,but begins She's story !!!
[DELETED]....
Khushnazeeb hein woh jin ko hein mili ye bahar zindagii mein ....
har kisiko .. nehin milta yahan pyar zindagii mein ..
pyar zindagii mein !!!
It "hurts" to realize that you are "unwanted" !!!!
The END!!
There were two persons named "HE" and "She"
He got a very nice friend and walking with her for
past 3 -4 months went like hours and all what She said
was the sweetest thing in the world and the songs
which She sang was the most beautiful one He ever
heard.. Never there was a difference between the both
since both knew, their journey has an end and wanted to
make it most memorable...They shared the wonderful
nature of happiness and reduced the burden of
sorrow...She taught the meaning of friendship and love
to him...She was the most adorable person He ever met
in life...She was the best thing ever happened to his
life...never could He forget her and could have
a close friend as She...Down the path they followed
there came the abrupt end...neither He or She could
reduce the pain of parting but for She, He had to...
This is not the end of the story but here our story
begins..
The pain was nothing else but it was the pain of love…
She had found someone before meeting he. She started
believing that someone is her soulmate and god has
chosen someone for her…She prayed to God to give
strength and asked he to help her out.. As days passed
she was able to find a friend in He… He stayed by the
side of she to help her but could not forget his
love…This is the first time something like this
happened in his life and he never wanted to forget
also..He was sure that he will never get She as he
could see she was drifting away in her way to find
only the best in someone…But in this path there was
fighting…..He and She started fighting on small
issues..He was still in love and could not bear the
pain of she leaving… She was trying to help He to
forget her since she didn’t want to see he in pain…
Time passed and the marriage of She to someone
happened…”Love never fails” were just words with no
meaning for he…These are for selling books or
movies…He wanted to know why he lost his love and so
he went to his father first……He told the whole thing
to his father and asked why it all happened like
this……Father told “Someone is better than you and so
you lost”……His father was no different from any other
father…… He could not believe this and he goes to his
mother and he told what happened in his life………Like
all mothers she also thought her son is the
best….Mother told “ You are far better than someone
but she could not find you, so it’s not your fault”.
He knew that both the answers are not correct and so
he went to God………He will tell the truth at least….With
great difficulty he finds God and asks him. God held
his hand and told “You both are my kids…both of you
are good but when I created you and someone..I made
you more caring, compassionate and calm……Now I have to
give these to someone also.. so I am giving she to
someone……..She will be adding all these to someone and
both of you will be equal… I want all my kids to be
same…She is the best I can make you two equal… You
know that She is the best and She can only do this…”
He was happy in a way that god had given all these
earlier itself and made his life happy till now………He
wondered how wonderful it would have been if she comes
to his life…… He remembered what God has told him….
He tried to be a true friend to her but never let to
reduce the love he had for her ...
Here ends He's story ,but begins She's story !!!
[DELETED]....
Khushnazeeb hein woh jin ko hein mili ye bahar zindagii mein ....
har kisiko .. nehin milta yahan pyar zindagii mein ..
pyar zindagii mein !!!
It "hurts" to realize that you are "unwanted" !!!!
The END!!
Saturday, August 05, 2006
On friendship day to you my dearest friend ..
Two yrs. ago one fine day , my best friend visited me . She brought me my fav sweets and flowers. She brought 2 rose plants - 1 yellow n 1 red . I was more than delighted to receive them for 2 reasons , 1st one being my liking towards the person who brought it and the the 2nd - liking towards rose. We had dinner & had a wonderful time , re-lived all our good old times together . Felt so happy to have her here . Not everyone gets their "Best friend" so near after finishing their studies n getting settled . But I was fortunate enough to have mine so close to me , atleast for a short period . I took care of those 2 rose plants , re-planted them to new pots carefully and watered them everyday ( or every other day ;0) ). But I did take care of them , they were too precious for me to ignore . And out of the two ,I liked the red one more ..not that I ignored the yellow, but being a girl , I always had a special liking towards the red . Every girl likes to get a red rose atleast once in their life time . I was extremely delighted to have them at my home ... Over the period , both the plants continued to grow ,but after blooming once the red rose started to grow weak.. n despite my extra care ,atlast the red rose ditched me . It wilted without even considering the time n care I gave to it :( . And the yellow rose started to faint too -drooping its small small branches , except for one small branch which showed me a good green side of it . I watered it every single day , with the hope that it will survive . I did not want to lose that one too . Finally it survived. The single branch that showed the "green-ness" started to grow n though I had to wait patiently for a long time, the end result was good . Finally I could see small -small budding here n there n one fine day there it bloomed , one after the other !!!!! I felt so happy to see them .. Beautiful yellow roses amidst light green leaves . It was such a pleasant sight .
And it was the time when I heard that my best friend was coming to meet me , after 2 yrs . My joy knew no bounds . Though she was tired flying across the country and reaching here after midnight ,I took her to the deck & with an apology over the "wilted red rose plant" , I showed her the yellow roses . She was veRRRy surprised n happy to see the flowers :0) !!!!
I told her " Sush the roses given by you , did not give up on me" . She replied" Ni.. its because you took good care of it ". And when I replied with a sad face that the red one dried out completely , my best friend, with an assuring smile(as always )responded "The yellow survived dii .. because yellow stands for friendship -ever lasting friendship ". I just looked at her admiring her ability to make a person feel the BEST ever. We both stood there watching those beautiful yellow roses' "nodding"-accepting what they heard :0) .
And on this Friendship day Sush .. I want to tell you .. how much your friendship means to me . It has grown over the years (10 + ??!!! ) to a bond that is stronger than amalgam ..lol..lol .. ( dont want to add too much senti.. ;0) !! )
Hope the following is familiar to you Sush ...
"This is our kind of friendship .. the kind that exists between two people who understand each other and communicate each other - even without uttering a word " ,using - the principal non verbal cue that 2 or more ppl use , to regulate their verbal communication " as we read in our books .
Thanks Sush for giving me the gift of true friendship and being my life-time friend . I am certain that we can count on each other no matter what .
Happy Friendship Day to you dear Sush ...
"As we go on, we remember
All the times we had together
And as our lives change, from whatever
We will still be, friends forever"
courtesy: vitamin C graduation :0) .. plz do hear it dii ...
Two yrs. ago one fine day , my best friend visited me . She brought me my fav sweets and flowers. She brought 2 rose plants - 1 yellow n 1 red . I was more than delighted to receive them for 2 reasons , 1st one being my liking towards the person who brought it and the the 2nd - liking towards rose. We had dinner & had a wonderful time , re-lived all our good old times together . Felt so happy to have her here . Not everyone gets their "Best friend" so near after finishing their studies n getting settled . But I was fortunate enough to have mine so close to me , atleast for a short period . I took care of those 2 rose plants , re-planted them to new pots carefully and watered them everyday ( or every other day ;0) ). But I did take care of them , they were too precious for me to ignore . And out of the two ,I liked the red one more ..not that I ignored the yellow, but being a girl , I always had a special liking towards the red . Every girl likes to get a red rose atleast once in their life time . I was extremely delighted to have them at my home ... Over the period , both the plants continued to grow ,but after blooming once the red rose started to grow weak.. n despite my extra care ,atlast the red rose ditched me . It wilted without even considering the time n care I gave to it :( . And the yellow rose started to faint too -drooping its small small branches , except for one small branch which showed me a good green side of it . I watered it every single day , with the hope that it will survive . I did not want to lose that one too . Finally it survived. The single branch that showed the "green-ness" started to grow n though I had to wait patiently for a long time, the end result was good . Finally I could see small -small budding here n there n one fine day there it bloomed , one after the other !!!!! I felt so happy to see them .. Beautiful yellow roses amidst light green leaves . It was such a pleasant sight .
And it was the time when I heard that my best friend was coming to meet me , after 2 yrs . My joy knew no bounds . Though she was tired flying across the country and reaching here after midnight ,I took her to the deck & with an apology over the "wilted red rose plant" , I showed her the yellow roses . She was veRRRy surprised n happy to see the flowers :0) !!!!
I told her " Sush the roses given by you , did not give up on me" . She replied" Ni.. its because you took good care of it ". And when I replied with a sad face that the red one dried out completely , my best friend, with an assuring smile(as always )responded "The yellow survived dii .. because yellow stands for friendship -ever lasting friendship ". I just looked at her admiring her ability to make a person feel the BEST ever. We both stood there watching those beautiful yellow roses' "nodding"-accepting what they heard :0) .
And on this Friendship day Sush .. I want to tell you .. how much your friendship means to me . It has grown over the years (10 + ??!!! ) to a bond that is stronger than amalgam ..lol..lol .. ( dont want to add too much senti.. ;0) !! )
Hope the following is familiar to you Sush ...
"This is our kind of friendship .. the kind that exists between two people who understand each other and communicate each other - even without uttering a word " ,using - the principal non verbal cue that 2 or more ppl use , to regulate their verbal communication " as we read in our books .
Thanks Sush for giving me the gift of true friendship and being my life-time friend . I am certain that we can count on each other no matter what .
Happy Friendship Day to you dear Sush ...
"As we go on, we remember
All the times we had together
And as our lives change, from whatever
We will still be, friends forever"
courtesy: vitamin C graduation :0) .. plz do hear it dii ...
Tuesday, June 20, 2006
Ever since I was a child , I had this strong affinity for white roses, probably its a liking that developed after reading my all time favorite - " Beauty & the Beast " .. Beauty's father going in search of beautiful white roses for his youngest Beauty , him being captured by the beast and Beauty's arrival to rescue her dearest Father ..." everything still lingers in ma mind..
I was more than delighted, when I got a gift from one of my very good friends out here - a white rose plant !!!
Even though my dearest hubby predicted very few hours/days ;0) for its survival , the plant & me, :) dint give up.
And I proudly present the "first" white rose that bloomed at my home .
I was more than delighted, when I got a gift from one of my very good friends out here - a white rose plant !!!
Even though my dearest hubby predicted very few hours/days ;0) for its survival , the plant & me, :) dint give up.
And I proudly present the "first" white rose that bloomed at my home .
Wednesday, June 14, 2006
Quite hard to admit,yet the fact remains, that I can still walk around saying " Im in my 20's ;0) ".. for 1 year more !!! The very special day in my life, ( probly more imp. than my wed. anniv.) -"to me"- just passed quietly until night , when my friends came over and surprised me. The best part of my Bday that I want to share - 2 cutie pies , who made it a memorable one ..
Sreehari & Meenakshi ...
Monday noon got a call from one of my friends here and while talking to her ,came their 2 1/2 yr old Sreehari dear .. and his mother told him "Sreeharii .. annie aunty kku happy birthday paraa" and he repeated like this .. "Annniiee auntiee .... Happiee Happiee Dayyy .." Man!!!
That was toooo cute ... loved him so much for that .He was always a favorite of mine and this made me even more happier and for the next few seconds I was so damn excited !! I m sure Remz could make out that easily from the rest of our conversation.. :0) ..
Was biting onto a "2-days-old-leftover-pizza" slice ,( my bday lunch :( !!! ) when another friend of mine called up to convey her wishes to me .. n then came the little star .. Meenu kutty, the cutie pie .. n said " ba ba ba ngu ngu ngu ... " in her sweet voice ...
Wishes from Sreehari n Meenu kuttyy ..made my day ... ;;)!!
Sreehari & Meenakshi ...
Monday noon got a call from one of my friends here and while talking to her ,came their 2 1/2 yr old Sreehari dear .. and his mother told him "Sreeharii .. annie aunty kku happy birthday paraa" and he repeated like this .. "Annniiee auntiee .... Happiee Happiee Dayyy .." Man!!!
That was toooo cute ... loved him so much for that .He was always a favorite of mine and this made me even more happier and for the next few seconds I was so damn excited !! I m sure Remz could make out that easily from the rest of our conversation.. :0) ..
Was biting onto a "2-days-old-leftover-pizza" slice ,( my bday lunch :( !!! ) when another friend of mine called up to convey her wishes to me .. n then came the little star .. Meenu kutty, the cutie pie .. n said " ba ba ba ngu ngu ngu ... " in her sweet voice ...
Wishes from Sreehari n Meenu kuttyy ..made my day ... ;;)!!
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